What SHOULD make a person Attractive?

We live in a time when so much emphasis is put on how we physically look. Cosmetic surgery is a billion dollar industry and with shows like bridalplasty and celebrities plastering the cover of magazines it's no wonder people have forgotten what is important.

My aunt posted something on her facebook that really got me thinking. "When I was coming up, nobody ever wondered if they were "sexy."Every woman looked a certain way when they were dressed up. Every man, too. Haircut, shoes shined, clean shirt. Women....... Stockings, lipstick, a hint of perfume (a hint )It was about self respect....... For yourself and for others...... No cussin' fighting or talking about folks. Unheard of, and most especially not in front of kids."

It is very important to have respect and take pride in yourself before you expect anyone else too. I am so tired of seeing women dress like street walkers and getting offended when someone calls them out of their name. If your house was on fire and you see someone walking down the street in a firemen uniform you would shout out for help wouldn't you? What If they say "oh I'm sorry did you really think I was a firemen because of my outfit" WELL YES!!!! keep that in mind ladies DRESS FOR HOW YOU WANT TO BE PERCEIVED! Guys if you want to be taken seriously please PULL UP YOUR PANTS it's not attractive, no women wants you when you look like a baby who has a load in their pants.

What you are in the inside is what really matters the most. Beauty fades but ugly stays forever. Now you shouldn't go out and pick out the ugliest person just because they have a great personality I mean you have to be SOMEWHAT attracted to your partner. But it's s know fact when you have qualities like Honest,Self-Control, Mildness, Kindness, Joy, And Love your stock goes WAY UP in a attractiveness.

SO Gen Y please take note of what our elders have to say. They have been around for a while and really know what they are talking about. That's just my thought on the matter.


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