Its been a few days since I've written on my blog and it's because I had a dear friend come and visit. I haven't seen them for about four years but it felt like we've never had a gap in time. As we reminisced about where everyone is that we used to hang out with it really got me thinking about friendship and how we see it as adults and as children.
I remember as a teen I felt obligated to go to every function I was invited to. Now I would never pull the let's see who has a better invite card( some people still do that as an adult) just let you yes mean yes people. I would however pull the double booking card and hit up two to three events in one night.
Now as an adult I would rather stay at home and put on a good movie or have two or three people over for dinner. The older you get the more you realize that friendships are the one thing in life that you really need to cultivate and maintain. Don't drop a friend just because he or she did something to make you mad. Now there are unforgivable actions that can be done to you and let's face it some times you need to get rid of toxic people in your life but at the end of the day its the relationships with friends that get you through life. I am truly blessed to have GREAT friends and I hope that I show you all how much you mean to me. So if you are fighting with a friend just think to yourself is it REALLY worth it and 9 times out of ten it really isn't. And that is just my thought on the matter
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